There are plenty of Mistresses out there but one would be hard pressed to find someone of the Black decent often times. As time progresses, more and more Black Mistresses are showing up in the scene but still we are still the minority.

Your probably thinking I am complaining about this; either that there aren’t enough of us or there are more showing up. You would be wrong on both counts! I love being a rare  but I also love seeing more of us of the Ebony decent show up to the bdsm scene. I never view any Mistress as competing no matter what we are doing. Everyone has a different style and it is that, that I find compelling.

Personally, I am sort of bratty but I don’t do the yelling and screaming and tantrum throwing. I love to use psychology against my slaves and those who have served under me have found I have a grizzly imagination to take things one step further than they ever thought possible. As an Black Mistress, I also love to use race into the humiliation aspect of my training sessions. This doesn’t mean I am racist, after all I am mulatto * half white and half black *. I love to manipulate guys using body worship and light hypnosis as I am still studying the art of hypnosis. That is just a few points of my style of being a hot Black Mistress though, of course I wouldn’t give it all away haha!

In updates, your Black BDSM Mistress will be doing more pictures later today as time allows and a few more custom clips. Remember if you have an ideas or requests you can email me at veronica_vain (at) yahoo (dot) com and I will place them into consideration. This weekend I will be putting a thong onto ebanned to be sure to check back if you want to sniff my Black Goddess thongs hehe.

FINALLY after a long hiatus I am back! Cheers for Princess no? For those of you who don’t read my live journal, twitter or frequent my ebony domme clips4sale store, you were probably freaking out about now were you not? No worries, Princess is here to the rescue!

Since I was out for so long and the emails stacked up so high, I decided to be really nice and do 2 custom clip requests a day till I clear out my emails… this is going to be a lot! To see the ones already posted CLICK HERE.

Here are a few thumbnail pics of the already posted videos:

I know that was way to much for you losers to handle but try to calm down! Especially since MORE are on their way!

I am also back on Niteflirt as well, doing webcam and fetish phone calls so be sure to stay tuned. I like Talksugar; however, always forget to log in, so if you see me logged into yahoo be sure to message me if you don’t see me logged into TalkSugar, this happens often.

In updates, this site should be 100% really soon with all the pages done and links to all my wishlists and other ways to pay and spoil me as well!

More on this later but here is my cracker ass white boy slave pics

I simply cant wait till my photo gallery updates are done! I recently got a new digital camera which will be used to take pictures of myself as well as shoot new HD videos! YAY! I have had a few over the years but this new one should be way better. Of course I will still shoot a few webcam videos here and there. I love the amateur look sometimes.

With another new site coming out your Princess Veronica Vain has been BUSY! The first set of pictures is a sock set! Much like my blue stripped socks and my candy apple red knee highs, I have a set green argyle that I can’t wait to get the pictures up of! Princess also picked up a set of hot strap on pictures with jeans! I have always had a jean fetish… seriously! I buy jeans a lot as they are comfy in this southern heat weather; not to mention they make my ass look INSANELY hot! The third and final set that will be released from this batch is a titty tease set. Strictly ebony bdsm non nude boob tease set as a treat for worthy submissive pets.

In other news, I have learned that I have indeed ruffled the feathers of a few Dommes, imagine that! Can’t say that I do care; bad publicity is good publicity! Opinions are truly different per person; what perplexes me though is when someone feels that you writing a post is you shoving it down their throats. There are MANY blogs/sites/shows/people that I disagree with wholeheartedly, hell if I were to see them in real life the temptation to beat them with a sock full of quarters might prove to tempting, NEVER though would I give them the time of day to let them know that they phased me.

If your opinions are to closed minded, to loosely based or well too stupid for me to fathom the reasoning behind or even be able to agree to disagree with; you will never know it. The best weapon against ignorance is to ignore. If I voice my differing opinion back at someone it is either because I respect them and we have differing opinions to which I would LOVE a friendly debate OR I find their differing point of view interesting and would like to educate myself on it.

After all, as a Domme you should be able to control yourself otherwise how can you control a submissive? If you bark like a rabid dog in a title fight and this is your last round; what are you portraying yourself as? While I am far from a Gandhi like preacher and have had my own personal moments of childish temper tantrums but they have been few and far between since you know… becoming an adult. This isn’t about the bdsm community but people in general ( I know when people read blogs aka others opinions they tend to apply them to themselves, means the author must be quite powerful hehe!). I see people of “power” often showing uncontrolled rage fits that tends to undermine their appearance of a “superior”. A sign of a good leader is that they can keep their resolve even in the face of extreme adversity.

I for one know that submissives love to act up in order to be punished, it is a game that is both expected and dealt with. Again this goes back to my fake domme philosophy, but when I see a Domme screaming her lungs at a sub that has gone astray to another Domina or the like I always do a face palm. Any sub who wiggles away will not have the pleasure of getting a free humiliation session from me. When, and I know you always come back, they are ready to come back they can be prepared to pay double to get back into my good graces. When you chase after a submissive, at least in my opinion, you are no longer the Domme but the dommed.

I see these conversations that Dominas post of losers on yahoo or other messengers/emails; where the “sub” promises the world and do not deliver. The Domme stays in the chat and humiliates them and says everything that I would say to a paying or true submissive…. again more face palming. They then wonder how come more and more of these guys find them. Posting such is about the equivalent of pouring blood in a shark tank, you know when your still in it! Even some paying subs will then go cash in on the freebies you so readily throw about.

Ok rant over hehe! In good news niteflirt now has some features back that allowed me to lower my phone only listing back down to the normal price of $1.99 a minute and my cam listing as normal is back to $2.99. Happy days INDEED!

Hypnosis is a subject near and dear to my heart. In the right hands it can be a very enjoyable experience for both the subject and the subject-or. In an amateur hypno “domme” ’s hand it can be irreversible damage to a men’s psyche; then again in an experienced dommes hand it might be still irreversible, hehehe.

Back to the subject mater though shall we? To the left you will see a picture of what once was a man and is now a shell compliments of me. While he may not be a long term hypnosis pup he was a fun treat to play with after I totally warped his wee little mind! He bought my Breast Hypnosis clip from my clips4sale site and was instantly addicted to my boobs. Due to some ebony fellow Domina’s I know that this pet has a pension for the darker ladies and I used that to my advantage while forcing him to do degrading things on cam. From singing: Living on a Prayer by Bon Jovi, dancing around with underwear on his head, humping/licking his socks to guided masturbation with a side of tease and denial. I almost laughed myself sick watching him perform for moi.

I find hypnosis to be extremely effective when using video visual aids as well as headphones so the sound goes directly to your ear. No reverberations, no altered sound of any sort; just my voice in your ears as you get lulled into a sub-conscious state. Once your brain is settled in properly for the hypnotic suggestions I shall place in there, it is time to enhance you as a person.

WAIT WHAT?? Yes I said that, enhance you as a person! Your fetishes usually are loosely thrown together based off what you have seen and heard of, at least a great many of the submissive pets who serve me at least. I like to take your kinks and increase the pleasure you get from them. Make it where when you do indulge you get that high you originally received when you first discovered your kink.

Fetish to me is like a drug, the first time you attempt something kinky its highly erotic and sensual. Your toes tinkle and your head spins; your sight is blurry from euphoria and time passes WAY TO FAST. I often sought to make that sensation have some longevity or to rekindle that original emotional and excitement I once felt. That is exactly why I got into hypnosis.

This is probably my little pet peeve, no actually it is just that! I fucking hate catching people posing as Dominas just to exploit the fetish. Yes I know that sounds like a true oxymoron but it isn’t! I shall explain more in depth.

There is room for all kinds of domination in the the BDSM world, I understand this fully. What there isn’t room for; however, is the guys who see us girls wallet raping you bozos and wanting in on the lot. They run about stealing girls pictures or on the rare instance buying some legal content pictures then grab a sexy yahoo name and hide behind the persona. They can amass so much by doing these practices but they always slip up! Their masculine * if you can even call it that * ways always peek through as well as their submissive ways. They will look at other girls blogs to see what they are doing, being the male that they are, they will send a message to her wanting to serve her. They then think that revealing they aren’t a Domme and are in fact a submissive male will earn them more kudo points! WRONG BOZO! That earns you a spot on our loser list. For any of you thinking this behavior will not be caught you are SORELY mistaken!

Then there are the girls who probably couldn’t spell BDSM let alone be a Domina. They see all of us rolling in the dough and think that Financial domination means walking up to someone and saying HEY FORK OVER THE  CASH and the guy does. I admit this happens a bit and hence why these girls stay in the game. Every once in a while they DO get the payouts. They can not understand why I can snap my fingers and get $500 out of a pig or how that one time I got $20,000 wired into my bank account. They scoff and say IMPOSSIBLE or INCONCEIVABLE. These too, though they are female, are fake Dommes. This is not a fetish for them but a means of survival.

Like the men hiding behind pictures as exampled above, they “Domme” fakes can also hide behind content pictures as well. Now I want it to be known, I have NO PROBLEM with REAL Dommes using content pictures. I get it, some people just live in an area or have a life that they can not risk being seen in the BDSM world in. I get that but the women who say they are REAL and are clearly fake? I do not understand this! I noticed over the years that they are usually the ones who also have no idea about true Domination or anything about any genre of fetish. They are the stick their hands out and cry gimme ladies. Oh this sounds like bratty young behavior no? Well most of them are admittedly over the age of 40 hiding behind some barely legal girls stolen picture. My advice in these cases, if she will not get on cam for you, has no cam verified profile such as DommesandSubs.com, and/or doesn’t have a website/ doesn’t seem to have an idea about submissives other than cough up the cash; I would say RUN FAR FAR AWAY!

Fake Dommes also seem to take the vulture approach to submissives. If sub wishes to contact me, I have various avenues in which he is allowed. If someone contacts you claiming to be me, IT IS NOT ME! I never EVER add submissives first and will never contact you.  I personally have no need to track down subs as I am busy with the ones who constantly contact me already. I have found those who stalk, harass or even poach submissives usually are just after a single thing…. to pay their suffering bills. Now do I have my subs pay my bills? Do I not make my living as both an Ebony Internet Domina and Real Time Black Bitch? Yes, I do not hide this fact at all. What I do not do though is beg whine or cry for attention, money or gifts though; that comes naturally as the submissive gets to know me. A true Domme does not care if you come or go from her, a true Domme will not chase you down in order to bank off you of you and a true Domme isn’t desperate for a submissive.

Again there are as many approaches to domination as there are different  types of fetishes, and no ONE person should/can fit the bill for each. There are people out there who are frauds though, just like in any other facet of life. Do be prepared and forewarned. You are submissive not a mark.

Ok so to test Ebanned out I put up some web cam show auctions. I have never personally done ebanned sans a few times but they were not for my personal possessions and I have since forgot my logins for that account. Will be interesting to see how this goes as far as my web cam auctions. I set them so that you submissive worshipers can purchase more than one. CLICK HERE to go see the auction. I hope in the upcoming days to put a pair of boots, panties, jelly jar I stuck my foot in and a few other fun items for you submissive Goddess junkies to buy!

Speaking of jelly, I did a two part clip series on peanut butter and jelly. The twist? I know you losers work really hard to make my life so fabulous, so to give back I made you a foot peanut butter and jelly sandwich. I used my perfect feet to mash up the grapes and smooth out the peanut butter just for you. Click below on the images to buy them from clips4sale!

Some of my hottest clips to date I would say!

Been doing a lot of foot fetish clips lately but that will change! I have a bunch of clips lined up and for the month of December I will be updating no less than four times a day! That is so many opportunities for you wank tards to get a chance to own one of my clips. Remember if you wish to see a particular type of clip you can always leave me a comment here and maybe you will see that clip in my store!

Its been a busy couple of days, other than doing clips, I have also been tweeting up a store on my twitter. It can be so addictive and sidetracking at times but well the slaves who chat with me on it just keep me going. I have also been busy updating and adding to my Princess Pain members area and did my first group cam show on it for you losers. It was so much fun having all 20 of you in there chatting to me and being group humiliated by your Goddess Veronica Vain. The bidding war that started though was quite scary, by scary I mean marvelous for me that is. The tributes came roaring in as you all tried to prove you were more loyal and worthy than the last loser. Definitely was quite refreshing!

Suspender Pantyhose are officially favorite kind of pantyhose!! No really they are they are BEYOND hot!!. You get the feel of nylon on your skin, you get the feel of fishnet feel through the holes and the best part is there are carefully constructed holes for various instruments to fit through! You know what I mean…. face, fingers, toys, etc….

The pair featured in today’s picture is compliments of a submissive of mine, Clay, he bought them off my wishlist for me. I thought they would be good for a clip or two on my clips4sale site, but I was WRONG! Me and my lover had many an orgasm with those on! Usually I do not keep my nylons on very long after I put them on because you don’t want them to rip and being as I love it rough well…. off they must go, even though I love the kink of having the pantyhose on. What is an ebony Goddess to do?

Well I saw the suspender pantyhose on someone eles’s wishlist, I believe it was Princess Mindy. I liked the look and though they would make for some hot sessions with subs in my Curvy Goddess real time dungeon as well as some great clips for my Veronica Vain clips4sale site. I was finishing up filming when my current flavor of the month came over to see me. He saw me in exactly the same outfit as seen above, thinking it was a body stocking. Nope just a mesh nylon shirt, bra, big butt thong, and suspender pantyhose. He went wild! Well he probably would have no matter what I was wearing but you see what I mean! Gotta say it is nice to have the silky feeling of pantyhose on my chubby legs while getting eatten!!

Being a Dominate woman myself I find that it is a wee bit hard swallow when I stumble upon a submissive who utters the phrase “A true Domme does it for free.” As if taking money for my time makes me any less dominate or some sort of phoney or fake. I often just blow it off as, well there goes some one who doesn’t get it; while they too, I am sure, have the same thoughts.

When something is your true lifestyle, I feel you shouldn’t deny it. In fact you should embrace it and make it part of your life. I do not look down on those who do go to a 9 – 5 job and pretends to be prim and proper till they get home and shimmy into some PVC and grab the platform heels and whips/chains; nope that is what gets them through.

I, on the other hand, made being dominate into a 24/7/365 day a year job as well as hobby. I have no fake vanilla facade I put up, I have no real me waiting to be set free, I am just that, ME! Furthermore, when you go to church * if you do * do you NOT pay the them? Oh wait that is called tithing. The cold hard truth is that no matter what you do in this world you will have to pay some sort of fee: taxes, bills, membership, insurance… etc… If this is your hobby, then you should pay. If its your lifestyle, you should pay.

The rules are pretty simple: I am the Domme, I set the rules. Now, you can choose whether I am the Domme for you or not. If I am not, that is fine. I respect those who choose to not waste my time because they know what I am. I highly encourage submissives looking for a BDSM Domme to research before you contact.

Now free Dommes, this does NOT bother me at all. If you feel that you shouldn’t charge for what reason, then do not and more power to you. You are no less than me because I choose to charge for my time. What I do look down on is the free Dommes who belittle those who do charge. Quite simply I have so many I talk to on a daily basis; be they my personal stable of pets or the fetishists looking for a fetish fix, that if I didn’t charge I do not think I would have enough time in the DAY!!

I put alot into my sessions with my losers being as many of their fetishes are in fact mine as well. That said, I am sure many a free Domme also puts lots of time and care into their subs. I can only imagine they do not advertise their services as I do though, or they would be swamped as well. In fact that is how I GOT INTO BDSM, I was on collarme.com and realized that I could simply NOT keep up with the guys contacting me. My alternative was very simple, I had to find a way to select the best of the crop. It was in fact a submissive who told me that he was really tired of not having as much time with me has he would like. He told me that a real sub would want to do anything to get my time and my attention was valuable. A real sub wouldn’t mind paying to prove he is ahead of the pack.

Odd as it may seem this was an extremely hard to comprehend at first but, when I took the leap it really took off. I thought most would scoff at the idea of tributing and paying me for chat time or cam or whatever but they didn’t! Most ENJOYED the fact that they could contribute in a more tangible way to my lifestyle. I was soon able to quit my job and live off the submissives who worshipped me both live and online.

It would be a complete lie to say that there weren’t more than a few who were put off by the idea, but at that point most had already had quite an intimate relationship with me that they were more than willing to pay. They knew I was quality that is. Soon they all encouraged me to raise my prices higher and higher, as the demand wasn’t far enough down to allow me ample time with each of them. More left due to financial obligations but many stayed and the few still contact me ever so often.

I know that now the “there is money in pretending to be a Domme” rumor going about. This has caused a lot of stigma about Pro Domming equating to fake Domming. Understandably so, might I add. Most that take on this sort of attitude can not comprehend the psychology behind each fetish or do not understand the speific fetish at all. In fact most of theses sorts of Dommes label themselves as strict Financial Dommes. All they want is money and for some submissives that is all they want to do; have their wallets drained. I see NOTHING wrong with this until you have people ( I say people because men even do this ) steal pictures and have submissives buy webcam or other such services they can not provide. All for the love of money. This is not domination but scamming; this is not BDSM but lying and is a horrible practice. Other scams such as “blackmail” fetish where they will actually hunt you down and destroy your life. FEW guys actually want this but for the most part no one does, its just a fantasy that gets you off. It is tales such as those that make me understand WHY many look down on Pro Dommes.

While with a free Domme you have honestly nothing to loose, I find that Pro Dommes * aka for Pay Dommes * often have pages where feedback of past experiences can be found! This means you can fact check before selecting the Domme as yours. Most Dommes on the internet, especially those on web cam, also can post verification that they are in fact who they say they are. Being as my philosophy is that time is money, you can see why I would think that rather than spending time on a free Domme who might not understand your fetish you could find an experienced Domme who knows exactly what you might need.

The old adage goes: if you are good what you do, you don’t do it for free. I believe this holds true, but again to those who do charge I do not knock you. I caution though, for those who do not agree with my opinion, I do not care. I have been in the fetish/BDSM world for a while now and from my experience as well as the submissives I have had the pleasure of owning, its just so that simple.

SOO!!! I am excited that my feed to my website is already taking off. If you look on my sidebar you will see where you can sign up to have my messages, pictures and video delivered to YOUR email address every time I do an update!

So have to be super excited today as I got my gallery of free fetish pictures up, Ill leave you to find the link for that piglet….

I also got my first fetish webcam youtube video up! Show your curvy goddess Veronica Vain some love and go view it now losers!  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MVmrr3PhnIw, for those of you who want to watch!

These 3 hot photos are from my updates on my member’s area at www.princesspain.com. As if 3 video updates was not enough to make you submissive sluts drool well then if you have a Niteflirt account, can get a green dot reload pax OR send me a $15 dollar gift card you are REALLY in luck!

Those who tribute me $15 this week, 7 days from the time of this post, will receive 1 month access to my members area!!! You heard me right sluts, Princess is actually giving you a deal of a life time! After that the price will rise back to the $29.99 it was originally at my bdsm mega site!

Mini members area is still not ready, part of the reason I am giving you the offer above, isn’t Princess extremely kind . I did put the first of my preview clip videos up though, it will be changed out daily on days I am doing webcam. The video above is an example of such video you will see. If you want to see the FULL tease video then simply click the button below. It is a mere $3.00 or is it just more temptation by the curvy Goddess? Click and find out . On that note, I no longer give my chat Id’s out for free. I decided to combine the payment for my rules, chat Id’s and a couple fetish tease pictures into a simple $2.00 paid mail you can access via Niteflirt. If you do not have Niteflirt, you can leave a comment here or send an Amazon gift card to me at veronica@fetishcamdom(dot)com, in the comments area make sure to put your return email address and I will send you my contact details.

I also took the liberty to post in my livejournal account, be sure to check that out my pets . Princess really has been busy no?

I think the final update for today * lots more updates coming as I get more of the site out and available for you submissive pets to view* would be that of my new tribute page. Check it out and see how you too can be a good sub for Princess!