This is probably my little pet peeve, no actually it is just that! I fucking hate catching people posing as Dominas just to exploit the fetish. Yes I know that sounds like a true oxymoron but it isn’t! I shall explain more in depth.

There is room for all kinds of domination in the the BDSM world, I understand this fully. What there isn’t room for; however, is the guys who see us girls wallet raping you bozos and wanting in on the lot. They run about stealing girls pictures or on the rare instance buying some legal content pictures then grab a sexy yahoo name and hide behind the persona. They can amass so much by doing these practices but they always slip up! Their masculine * if you can even call it that * ways always peek through as well as their submissive ways. They will look at other girls blogs to see what they are doing, being the male that they are, they will send a message to her wanting to serve her. They then think that revealing they aren’t a Domme and are in fact a submissive male will earn them more kudo points! WRONG BOZO! That earns you a spot on our loser list. For any of you thinking this behavior will not be caught you are SORELY mistaken!

Then there are the girls who probably couldn’t spell BDSM let alone be a Domina. They see all of us rolling in the dough and think that Financial domination means walking up to someone and saying HEY FORK OVER THE  CASH and the guy does. I admit this happens a bit and hence why these girls stay in the game. Every once in a while they DO get the payouts. They can not understand why I can snap my fingers and get $500 out of a pig or how that one time I got $20,000 wired into my bank account. They scoff and say IMPOSSIBLE or INCONCEIVABLE. These too, though they are female, are fake Dommes. This is not a fetish for them but a means of survival.

Like the men hiding behind pictures as exampled above, they “Domme” fakes can also hide behind content pictures as well. Now I want it to be known, I have NO PROBLEM with REAL Dommes using content pictures. I get it, some people just live in an area or have a life that they can not risk being seen in the BDSM world in. I get that but the women who say they are REAL and are clearly fake? I do not understand this! I noticed over the years that they are usually the ones who also have no idea about true Domination or anything about any genre of fetish. They are the stick their hands out and cry gimme ladies. Oh this sounds like bratty young behavior no? Well most of them are admittedly over the age of 40 hiding behind some barely legal girls stolen picture. My advice in these cases, if she will not get on cam for you, has no cam verified profile such as DommesandSubs.com, and/or doesn’t have a website/ doesn’t seem to have an idea about submissives other than cough up the cash; I would say RUN FAR FAR AWAY!

Fake Dommes also seem to take the vulture approach to submissives. If sub wishes to contact me, I have various avenues in which he is allowed. If someone contacts you claiming to be me, IT IS NOT ME! I never EVER add submissives first and will never contact you.  I personally have no need to track down subs as I am busy with the ones who constantly contact me already. I have found those who stalk, harass or even poach submissives usually are just after a single thing…. to pay their suffering bills. Now do I have my subs pay my bills? Do I not make my living as both an Ebony Internet Domina and Real Time Black Bitch? Yes, I do not hide this fact at all. What I do not do though is beg whine or cry for attention, money or gifts though; that comes naturally as the submissive gets to know me. A true Domme does not care if you come or go from her, a true Domme will not chase you down in order to bank off you of you and a true Domme isn’t desperate for a submissive.

Again there are as many approaches to domination as there are different  types of fetishes, and no ONE person should/can fit the bill for each. There are people out there who are frauds though, just like in any other facet of life. Do be prepared and forewarned. You are submissive not a mark.

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